Wednesday, November 7, 2007

What is Personality

Whenever a question is asked - "What is Personality"

The most common answers you get are:-

1) Dressing Style - How must you Dress up for a particular occasion !!

2) How to Eat - How to hold the Knife and Fork !!

3) How to Impress opposite sex

4) How to Smile, How to Laugh,

and So On ................. The List can be Endless..............................


But these are only Etiquette's - Which are only Superficial and External. The only purpose they serve is - "Show Off", Just like Clothing


Then, what exactly is Personality?? -

Personality is something Intrinsic - that makes you strong, Internally Strong. So that you can face any Challenge in Life - So that you can Succeed in Life.

There are many factors which help you in facing Challenges and Winning them over. But the Two most Important ones are:-

1) Communication Skills, and

2) Self Confidence.

If one can work on these two parameters - one can surely be on the path to develop his Own Personality - Be on the Path to Success - and most important - Be the most Welcome person in Society, Business, Family and Friends Circle.

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2 comments:

Unknown said...

Hi Ashok,

This is Victor this side. I have gone through your article on "What is Personality". What you have written makes lot of sense.

Lot of people face Failures in their life and because of lack of Self Confidence cannot cope with the failures and ultimately go into depression.

The major problem here is - developing right Communication Skills is not all that easy. And what is more difficult is to develop "Self Confidence".

I feel you should have mentioned about - how one should go about developing these qualities.

Victor

Unknown said...

Ashok,

What are your charges for conducting seminars for a co?

Rajesh Tripathy
Delhi.